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If you have spent any time working in or around our educational system at almost any level then you will recognize the following responses that are all too often offered by school board members, superintendents, principals, teachers, and parents when faced with challenging problems or responding to innovative opportunities:

1. Find a scapegoat. Teachers can blame administrators, administrators can blame teachers, both can blame parents, and everyone can blame the system.
2. Profess not to have the answer. That lets you out of having any answer.
3. Say that we must not move too rapidly. That avoids the necessity of getting started.
4. For every proposal set up an opposite and conclude that the “middle ground” (no motion whatever) represents the wisest course of action.
5. Point out that an attempt to reach a conclusion is only a futile “quest for certainty.” Doubt and indecision promote growth.
6. When in a tight place, say something that the group cannot understand.
7. Look slightly embarrassed when the problem is brought up. Hint that it is in bad taste, or too elementary for mature consideration, or that any discussion of it is likely to be misinterpreted by outsiders.
8. Say that the problem cannot be separated from other problems. Therefore, no problem can be solved until all other problems have been solved.
9. Carry the problem into other fields. Show that it exists everywhere; therefore it is of no concern.
10. Point out that those who see the problem do so because of personality traits. They see the problem because they are unhappy— not vice versa.
11. Ask what is meant by the question. When it is sufficiently clarified, there will be no time left for the answer.
12. Discover that there are all sorts of dangers in any specific formulation of conclusions; of exceeding authority or seeming to; asserting more than is definitely known; of misinterpretation by outsiders— and, of course, revealing the fact that no one has a conclusion to offer.
13. Look for some philosophical basis for approaching the problem, then a basis for that, then a basis for that, and so on back into Noah’s Ark.
14. Retreat from the problem into endless discussion of various ways to study it.
15. Put off recommendations until every related problem has been definitely settled by scientific research.
16. Retreat to general objectives on which everyone can agree. From this higher ground, you will either see that the problem has solved itself, or you will forget it.
17. Find a face-saving verbal formula like “in a Pickwickian sense.”
18. Rationalize the status quo; there is much to be said for it.
19. Introduce analogies and discuss them rather than the problem.
20. Explain and clarify over and over again what you have already said.
21. As soon as any proposal is made, say that you have been doing it for 10 years. Hence there can’t be possibly any merit in it.
22. Appoint a committee to weigh the pros and cons (these must always be weighed) and to reach tentative conclusions that can subsequently be used as bases for further discussions of an exploratory nature preliminary to arriving at initial postulates on which methods of approach to the pros and cons may be predicated.
23. Wait until some expert can be consulted. He will refer the question to other experts.
24. Say, “That is not on the agenda; we’ll take it up later.” This may be repeated ad infinitum.
25. Conclude that we have all clarified our thinking on the problem, even though no one has thought of a way to solve it.
26. Point out that some of the greatest minds have struggled with this problem, implying that it does us credit to have even thought of it.
27. Be thankful for the problem. It has stimulated our thinking and has thereby contributed to our growth. It should get a medal.

Other than the phrase “in a Pickwickian sense” which refers to Mr. Pickwick in Dickens’s Pickwick Papers and refers to being especially jovial in order to avoid offense, chances are you have heard one or many of these excuses used when challenging questions are asked, problems are being pointed out, or innovative opportunities are being promoted.

Perhaps the most sobering consideration about this list is that it was compiled by the progressive educator Paul Diederich in 1942. Deidrich was part of intense discussions with hundreds of teachers during summers in the late-1930s when the Eight-Year Study was being implemented in 30 high schools across the US. The study revealed that graduates of these more progressive schools which offered artistic, political, and social activities did as well academically as graduates from more traditional schools. Unfortunately, these reforms in the schools in the study demished within the next decade and by the 1950s there was a return to the fundamentals and a focus on the mechanics of spelling instead of a focus on the writing assignment as being part of a something authentic or part of the real world. As we face the challenges of moving our educational system from the industrial age to digital information age we must remember that this is a long-term challenge and we should heed Jean-Baptiste Alphonse Karr epigram:

The more things change, the more they stay the same

The educational historian Larry Cuban offers additional information and links in the post Educator Discussions That Avoid “The Problem” on his site from where I copied this list.

References
Cuban, L. (2018, November 30). Educator discussions that avoid “The Problem”. [Blog] Retrieved from: https://larrycuban.wordpress.com/2018/11/

carepe diem quote

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As part of my boys English 30 studies we watched Dead Poets Society and I was reminded of the power of the movie’s message and am also very relieved to know that I had seized the day after I had first watched this move and have been doing so ever since. More importantly I have passed on this belief to my boys.

In 1989 when I first watched Dead Poets Society I was still a single man, had not attended University and didn’t have the slightest inkling of where I would be in 25 years. I did believe this notion of Carpe Diem – Seizing the Day was one of the most important principles I could follow. I also believed Robin William’s character Keating when he stated:

“No matter what anybody tells you, words and ideas can change the world.”

Even though the movie is 25 years old and was set in the late 50’s or early 60’s its message is so relevant and needed today. It is also sobering to realize that the pressure to conform, work hard at school and become a doctor, lawyer, engineer or other professional have not changed. Watching this movie could not have come at a better time.

Carpe Diem is wonderful and exciting to see acted on out on the big screen but as we also saw in the movie it can be very difficult to live out. While these real life consequences need not be as drastic as the suicide which we saw in the main character Neil, they can be significant enough to discourage people from seizing the day or second guess all decisions or actions that lean toward this ideal.

I have been concerned that in my desire to raise my boys to seize the day and be passionate about life and to pursue their dreams that I really haven’t really given them this choice. They have grown up this way and really don’t know any other way–have I really given them a choice. I was raised in the same way that most of the characters in the movie were raised and rebelled against societal conformity, conventions and norms but it was my choice.

Perhaps I need not worry. Watching Dead Poets Society reminded me of how pervasive and powerful the notion of conformity is today as it was fifty years ago. All my boys friends are being pressured to work hard at school, go to University and get a good career. This pressure is everywhere around them. They too have the choice to conform and do what society expects. Seizing the day is a very difficult choice and it is one that can only be made by the individual. As much as I would like to believe that I have raised my boys to believe and live this way it is still their choice.

Maybe the best thing a parent can give their children is the choice. Are we giving our children a choice? Are we we listening to them? Will they be able to look back at what was and not ponder what could have been?